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Dan and Toby in Seattle

My day would start on a Saturday night on a weekend my partner Toby doesn’t have to work. We’d start the night out over cocktails with friends at Sun Liquor, a small bar in our neighborhood, Capitol Hill. I would order a “Dark and Stormy” and Toby would order his favorite, a “Greyhound.” We’d both watch Erik the bartender flex his muscles working the last drop of freshly squeezed grapefruit from the manual juicer. The tiny bar is constantly filled with the palpable aroma of citrus. No pre-made mixers for this bunch! The bartenders are always nice and informative. They really know their stuff.

From there we’d retreat to my favorite bar, The Bus Stop and hunker down for a few drinks. The patrons come and go in this small neighborhood bar. It ebbs and flows constantly creating an interesting mix of people. It’s gay. It’s straight. It’s lesbian. It’s trans. It’s random. It’s hipster. It’s plain Jane. I love it. The original bar was razed to make way for condos but the owners Gary and Rodney found an almost identical space a few short blocks from it’s original location to recreate the scene of many crimes. The music here is always spot on whether it’s being blasted from an iPod or being carefully selected by the DJ. On this particular night the speakers are pumping out The Smiths, Junior Senior, Le Tigre, Pixies, and Stereolab. Fueled by the strong drinks and creative energy the bar breaks out into an impromptu dance party. Strangers and friends alike cram the small bar and shake what their momma gave them.

All that dancing inspires me to stroll down to The Baltic Room and dance the night away at my friend Gene’s monthly gay soul club Talcum. It’s a spin-off of the Emerald City Soul Club‘s popular monthly dance night. The music is a mix of Northern Soul music, the crowd is friendly and interesting, and the talcum powder fills the air.

The next morning we’d rally the brunch crew. Sunday brunch at Linda’s has been a weekly tradition since I moved to town six years ago. It’s a dive bar/greasy spoon with good food at good prices. This particular day we’d score a table on the back patio which would be full of sunshine (one of the last places Kurt Cobain was said to be seen alive). Moque, our favorite waitress would deliver a pitcher of mimosas to our table – on the house. I’d order the steak and eggs. Medium rare, scrambled, English muffin, please. The jukebox spins a delightful mix of Michael Jackson, The Mamas and the Papas, David Bowie, Pixies, and The Delta 5. We’d sit back, take in the sun, throw back the mimosas, and enjoy the scenery and each other’s company.

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To work off my mimosas and steak and eggs I take a short bike ride down the hill through the downtown core to Pike Place Market for the perfect breakfast dessert – donuts! The Daily Dozen serves them up in a small stall at the market. Mesmerized by watching the entire donut making process unfold right before my eyes, I order a dozen assorted donuts and dig in. I reach in to the brown paper bag already becoming stained with grease and I pop a fresh hot donut into my pie hole. I continue to devour the bag as I stroll through the stalls of fresh produce, fish, and fruit mixed in with artists’ and craftsmen’s wares.

The ride would continue through Seattle’s Belltown neighborhood full of boutiques, bars and cafes over to Myrtle Edwards Park, via the Olympic Sculpture Park. The Olympic Sculpture Park was a superfund site until the Seattle Art Museum stepped in and cleaned up the area and turned it into a magnificent park. The park and natural views of Elliot Bay and snow capped Olympic Mountains captures my heart more so than the artwork. I’d ride my bike along the waterfront taking in the salt air and views of the mountains, container ships, ferries, and sailboats.

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After biking up Seattle’s hilly terrain to Capitol Hill, I’d reconnect with Toby and a bunch of friends to spend the remainder of the afternoon people watching in Cal Anderson Park. It’s a few short blocks from our place, making it a regular place to relax. Once an open reservoir, it was capped a few years ago creating several new acres of park space on top of the active reservoir below. It’s a great place for lounging, kite flying, bocce, or croquet. You can watch little kids frolicking in the wading pool while people juggle swords, practice yoga, toss the frisbee or picnic.

My perfect day would wrap up over sushi at HaNa, located on the neighborhood’s eclectic strip of Broadway, smack dab between Cal Anderson Park and our home. We’d order a boat load of sushi and sashimi, savoring each bite. The ambiance is nothing to note, but the service and food is excellent. Happy and full, we’d shuffle home after a long, wonderful, fun-filled day spent with friends.

Daniel has lived in Seattle’s Capitol Hill neighborhood with his partner Toby for nearly six years. By day he works for non-profit Community Voice Mail providing communication services to homeless and low-income people across the country. By night he scampers about town getting into all sorts of capers.

{My Perfect Day is a weekly Tidepooler series that reveals the most wonderful and interesting places in cities and towns around the world, as shared by the people who live there}

Beyonce in New York

Beyonce in New York

Beyonce in New York

Beyonce in New York

Beyoncé soared over the Madison Square Garden crowd Sunday night bathed in gold. And my friend Allison was there to capture all the Beyoncé magnificence. I’ve never been to a Beyoncé concert but I think it could be one of the most fun things ever. Check out this clip for a tiny glimpse into the excitement. (Jay-Z strolls in around 03:42!) And ps – Hot horn section!

Very few things are as wonderful as riding a bike through the wide streets of Berlin. We bought ours just about two years ago from a Neukölln shop run by a pair of wonderful German fellows (one a little too fat, one a little too thin). We rode them all year round… and today, I think I rode mine farther than ever before (my thighs are aching). Now, as we prepare to move back to the States on Sunday, it’s time to say goodbye to our beautiful bikes. Goodbye bikes! You rode in the ferry with us, you waited in the cold snow for us. I will never forget you.

Dan in Vienna

My perfect day starts at my flat – located in the middle of the Neubau district – and with Lula, my sexy beast of a dog. We start off with a walk along Neubaugasse, a shopping street lined with boutique and second hand stores, and pop into Cafe Latte for a quick coffee and cigarette (Sunday brunch is also recommended here, along with reservations).

Lula in Vienna

After fueling up it’s a quick stroll down to Heldenplatz, an unofficial dog park located in the 1st district between the Hofburg and Volksgarten. Lula and I relocated to Vienna from Venice (Cali, not Italy), and while my bitch is Westside for life, yo, she and I appreciate the beauty of what might be the most picturesque dog park in the world. After Lula gets her me-time, we meet some friends and take a scenic walk past the famous Stephansdom to Karlsplatz –– destination Kunsthalle, and the best breakfast burrito I’ve found in a town that is the wurst. (I go there when I’m jonesing for a good burger as well.)

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Two things that puzzled me when I first moved to Vienna were: 1) what does everyone do on Sunday, since all the shops are closed and 2) what the hell do Wieners talk about when they’re sitting at a cafe for 4 hours. Well, it turns out one of the answers to question number 1 is to sit at a cafe for hours. I still haven’t quite figured out what they talk about, but at least now I know where people go on Sundays. And for elegant slumming, the Kunsthalle Karlsplatz offers some exceptional lounge seating.

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Since it’s a perfect day, the sun is shining, it’s 24º and everyone in Vienna is wearing deodorant. This last detail is crucial because it means I can ride the U-bahn without risk of passing out. (Really people, I realize that everybody likes their own brand, but some days it’s out of control.) I survive the tube, leave Lula at the cut and jump on the whip for a ride around town. Vienna is a great city for biking – it’s not too large, it’s flat, there are dedicated bike lanes on most streets, not many cars and the city has a bike rental service that allows you to pick up and drop off at several locations. And that’s just in the central districts in Vienna. The Prater offers more scenic rides, as does as the Donauinsel. And if you really want to get your nature on, there’s Wienerwald, a forest area partly located within the city limits.

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I meet up with some members of my bike gang and we hit the Hauptallee in Prater, which is like a boulevard for bikers and joggers. Afterwards, it’s over to one of the bars along the Donaukanal – Herman Strand Beach or the newly opened Tel Aviv Beach – for a few drinks and some people watching. After catching a breather, it’s back to the flat for a disco nap and then out on the town for a night of music.

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Vienna is a mecca for classical music. I’ve never seen so many people walking the streets with violins strapped to their backs. There are several venues to catch a concert or opera, but the three most famous ones are the Stadtoper, Konzerthaus and Musikverein. The Stadtoper offers tickets for as little as three euros (at a price though, which including waiting early for tickets and standing during the show).

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The performance at the Stadtoper – Donizetti’s “L’elisir d’amoreis” – is a grand ole time, and we top it off with a Sacher torte at the world famous Cafe Sacher, just behind the opera house. But Vienna isn’t just a town for really old music; we close out the night by hitting up my neighborhood club, the Camera Club on Neubaugasse, and do a lil dance to some minimal beats provided by some of Europes best purveyors of fine funk.

Now it’s four or five in the morning. I do the walk of shame back to my flat, sleep till noon and wake up feeling grateful that there’s not much I can do on Sunday, even if I wanted to. Wien, Ich liebe dich.

Dan is an architect living in Vienna and working in Linz, for the office of Kaufmann + Partners, gmbh. He moved there from Los Angeles in 2008 and, after having a stolen bicycle returned to him by the police, decided that Vienna just might be the place for him.

{My Perfect Day is a weekly Tidepooler series that reveals the most wonderful and interesting places in cities and towns around the world, as shared by the people who live there}

Rama just said this might look good on our wall. I said, yes, if we were 8-year-old boys.

I like this one. It looks like a cross section of a tree trunk turned rainbow.

This one would add a dose of inspiration to any office.

And isn’t this a funny rendering of a Vanity Fair magazine page? I love it!

They’re all part of gallerist Jen Bekman’s 20×200 series, an initiative to promote affordable art. Limited edition works start at just $20. Now we can all be collectors.

Tidepooler Weddings: Lisa and Randy

Elements of the Scandinavian woodlands mingle with architectural accents in a handcrafted Brooklyn wedding.

Who: Lisa Sundbeck Kim and Randall Joon Kim

When: September 21, 2007

Where: Smack Mellon Gallery in Dumbo. I loved the space instantly. High ceilings, great windows, industrial materials and feel. You could see Manhattan across the river and I thought it would be a neat venue for all of our out-of-town guests.

Tidepooler Weddings: Selia Yang Gown

Bride Wore: A Selia Yang gown. I lived in Tribeca for four years and used to walk by her store all the time and drool over the dresses, so it was kind of indicative of my New York experience to one day wear one. I actually bought mine at the sample shop in the East Village, but got to go into the Tribeca shop to have it fitted by Selia herself.

Mini Showgirl: I always told my family I would embarrass them by wearing a showgirl style feather headdress at my wedding (if it ever happened). It was a joke, but I did, deep down, want to wear feathers. I found the piece I wore for the wedding at Leah C. Couture Millinery. It was last minute with no time to do anything custom or make an order. I just made her an offer on this sample and walked out with pretty much just what I was looking for.

Tidepooler Weddings: Vera Wang Bridesmaids

The Bridesmaides Wore: Vera Wang, but not from her Bridesmaid collection. It was kind of a coordination nightmare, because I decided to buy them all on Bluefly and finding a cool dress with all the sizes I needed was tricky. But it all worked out. I wanted them to be wearable and my cousin has actually worn hers to three weddings since mine. Black worked out for me because I have never been great with colors. I’m an architect. We like black (and white and shades of grey).

Woodland Blooms: I wanted to do a “Swedish Forest” theme. Sounds random, but I had just gone to Sweden the summer before with my mom and sisters and we stayed in a cabin in Smaland – and it was just about the most gorgeous place. Also my family on both sides comes from Sweden, so it worked in a little family history. My only color – lavender – was supposed to come from allium, but they went out of season right before my date and we had to sub in hydrangea at the last minute. We also used thistle, a sort of dark wheat looking grass, birch logs and birch bark, moss, nigella and some spiny willows. I am not too “flowery” so I loved it, and it was less expensive. My friend and fellow architect was just starting out doing weddings and it was super to work with her.

Tidepooler Weddings: Bloomsday Events

Edible Architecture: The cake was done by How Sweet it Is and they are great. It was a yellow cake with a hint of cardamom with lingonberry preserve layers (more Swedish influence). I wanted the cake to have some tectonics and be a bit architectural so we came up with an idea to use white chocolate to do the texture. I had in mind something a little more refined and straight than what they came up with, but the cake was a big hit none the less. It was also delicious.

First Dance: We just couldn’t decide on a first dance song. I wanted this one by Art Garfunkel, but Randy wasn’t having it. I was very into The Knife around the time we got married, which has no appropriate wedding songs, but we discovered that Jose Gonzales (also Swedish) did a slow remake of one of my favorite Knife songs, “Heartbeats” – so we went with that. It was kind of perfect.

Tidepooler Weddings: How Sweet It Is Cake

Welcome to the Family: My Mom’s side of the family has a tradition of welcoming new men into the family by singing a little song about them. My aunt Susan is a great musician/conductor/comedienne so she usually writes the words to a familiar tune and the rest of the family sings. They did ours to “New York. New York” and impressed the pants off all our guests. I was so proud of them and it meant a lot to us. I am so glad we decided to video our wedding so we got this on tape!

Designer Favors: Randy and I screen printed 150 handkerchiefs by hand. I made a pattern that mocked the Louis Vuitton logo but used L and R instead of L and V. It was a lot of work, but we did it together so it was a neat memory.

Tidepooler Weddings: Selia Yang Gown

Personal Touches: I did most of the preparations myself – like hand print the invites and programs with my Japanese Gocco machine. It was a ton of work and I felt like I had made a mistake during the process, but now I look back and am glad I put so much of myself into the day. The whole thing felt very “me.” Of course it was also “Randy” but we all know how much guys care about that stuff. He did do all the music playlists and that is really his touch since he was DJ’ing parties when we met. We also mixed some of his Korean heritage into the event by serving Bulgogi for dinner (we opted out of the kimchee).

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